So today marks a very unique day in my life. It is one marked by uncertainty and a vague bit of hope that maybe, just maybe i am wrong. With all the health issues that i have had going on, it was suggested that i talk with someone to get things off my chest. Well it turns out that despite me worrying about how it would turn out and being judged over things i said, i was shown otherwise. This lady im talking with has not only validated what im feeling, but is starting a process to work with me to realize how to get to where im better emotionally.
Today i found out for myself something that shocked me. It didnt shock me so much as finding out because i think a part of me knew, but the greater shock is that im one trained to see this in other people and i couldnt even see it in my own relationships. Now before i go into depth about what i found out today, i feel that i need to say this has nothing to do with Master and i's relationship. He has been nothing but supportive and is never abusive towards me in any way. He actually stops when He thinks He is going to far and can tell when i am gone emotionally or just not there at all.
Bearing my heart and soul to this woman has become so much easier the second time around. Maybe its because i find it so much easier to talk to another woman than a man(not meaning that i cant talk to Master about things because i most certainly can---meaning a male therapist). She listens and gives me feedback and tells me when i have done wrong and also has told me a lot that i havent been crazy and that everything im going through is not as easy as i try to make it seem for everyone else. She doesnt know about the lifestyle that Master and i share, but she never will because that is between me and Him and to others it may seem as abuse even though i know my relationship with Him is the only thing in the world that makes me truly happy. He is my heart and soul and i would never want to leave Him.
Today when i began to bear my soul, i thought that the topic would stay on my illness and the symptoms and how im dealing with that, but much like last week it turned back to talking about my family and everything going on with us. Much like how i bare my heart and soul here in my blog, i poured my heart out to this woman who knew nothing of my family until i told her. There were many moments were i felt so overcome with emotion that i could barely speak about the things i faced growing up. She listened to me talk of how i always had to be the perfect child and that my mother always seemed to act one way around certain people and completely different around others. She honestly is bipolar, not completely in a medical sense but in her actions. It took me pouring my heart and soul out to realize that with all these years there has been a lot that i have just swallowed and took because it was my parents and i had to just deal with it to move on. It was what i had to do to be able to function in the only family that i had. To me it was scarier to act out and be thrown out on my own with nobody to care for me or be there when i needed them.
Years after years of emotions poured out into the conversation between me and her. It was amazing to let my true emotions out and say that i felt that ive never really been taken care of and that my emotions were real. To hear that what i faced is quite honestly emotional abuse, i was shocked. To hear that when you were younger, you faced years of abuse and are still facing it is shocking to hear. It's much like when an abused woman stays with the man because she didnt feel that she was being abused---that is how i felt. To hear that i was being abused, i just couldnt believe it. In all honesty i really didnt believe it because im in the law enforcement field and trained to see things like that. Why couldnt i see it happening to myself??? Because i was facing the same thing every abused person faces---the cycle of positive reinforcement that keeps them there. It is why i struggle so hard with trying to stop the relationship between my mother and i, but at the same time i dont want to just completely give up because she is my mother.
After all the revelations today, i wonder if it is better for me to just give up on the relationship between me and my mother? The one thing that i am afraid of is that if i were to finally tell them how i feel and voice that what they are doing to me is abuse, it would be laughed off and i would be badmouthed through out the family. There would instantly be that black sheep mechanism and thats what im afraid of is having nobody from my family left to talk to. My aunt has already made it clear that if it is a choice for her between me and my mother that she will clearly chose my mom no matter what the cost is between me and her. Knowing this is why im so afraid to cut the ties to the abuse that i constantly deal with on a semi-weekly basis. Who will be there for me when i have nobody left and a huge hole in my heart from my family?? Master will and His family will, but i wonder if anyone else from my family will or will i lose everyone?
Having to face these fears is going to be a reality for me at some point in time, but i wonder when that will be? Who of my friends will believe the bad mouth lies that she tells or various things that are said by my parents? I hope nobody, but only time will tell especially after she comes and sweet talks her way again around His family down here. My fear is that nobody will believe me and that i will lose everything i know.
Master has been amazing through all of this and i wonder how i will begin to go about picking up the pieces of myself. It is no longer about trying to maintain a relationship with my parents as it is about what i need for myself to keep me healthy. If it means cutting ties, then one day i should be able to do that but for now i cant. Until then, i trust that my closest friends and family will believe me at that time. Now i pledge to end the cycle of abuse and move on not just for myself, but the possible new additions to the family in the future whenever that may be.
On a side note, Master and i are beginning to think more and more that i may be pregnant. We dont know for sure yet, but im planning on getting a blood test done to check and see what is going on. Either way we just want to know more for our own check off then anyone elses. Its partially because i am showing symptoms of being pregnant more and more----stretch marks, food cravings, and so many more. Aside from that we are hoping if im not that the endoscopy that i have done next week will show something as well. So crossing our fingers for anything at this point. Until then im going to focus on being happy, spending time with Master and our puppy, and just enjoying life. It's about Master and i's happiness and nobody elses(well maybe a few key people lol)
Thursday, June 23, 2011
Tuesday, June 21, 2011
Hard to believe...
So these past few months have been the most trying in my life. There has been a lot of issues concerning my health and just dealing with issues from various family members not happy with choices made between Master and i. Needless to say in the past few months blogging has been put to the side, but only because I need to regain my health.
It's hard to realize but its made Master and i's relationship that much stronger facing all the health concerns that i have had lately. Since about 3 months ago, i have had tests come back abnormal then suddenly normal and enzyme levels return back high and then normal again. To me things arent making very much sense medically. To be honest, everything i have been showing are pregnancy symptoms to the t but all the tests come back negative. We just wonder if maybe i am showing a false positive because my mother never showed up on a urine test and she had her period the whole time she was pregnant with me. Either way Master and i would be happy regardless if i was pregnant or not.
My brain is beginning to wonder what is going on because it seems that i have a lot of days where i feel good, but if we go out running around for long hours on end it means that i usually end up exhausted and worn out and just feeling puky yucky. There are really no words to describe it. We are at our wits end trying to figure what is wrong with me and have just decided that it will be left to the experts. If they can find something, they will im sure of it even if it is as simple as telling me that im pregnant or that i need to have my gall bladder out. We are prepared to handle either or even if its not those. We both just want to know somehing because its been three months almost four of me battling my health---headaches to dizzyness/lightheadness to not being able to walk right balance wise to having major side pain and back pain. It's like things just cant get better for us.
The good news is for all of this is that i have been put in an office type job for my area that allows me to sit and only work a short number of hours until we can figure out what is wrong with me. If it means im pregnant, then i stay where im at. If not, then i stay at this new place until we figure out how long it will take me to get better. Either way i honestly like this new job better because it is way better suited for my personality and just everything that i know. I deal with people on a daily basis and love helping people solve their problems (if only i could do that with my own family problems then id be golden).
Beyond that i just have to say that i am thankful to have Master there for me in my life every step of the way. Never once have i felt alone in dealing with all these illnesses that have come up. He has never once called me a hypochondriac or said that He didnt believe what i was going through. He could always see the pain and agony on my face and was there rubbing my back and just doing whatever He could to make me comfortable. He is truly an amazing man and i am so thankful for Him as both my protector and Master. I only hope that i can return the favor one day if i need too. I love Him so much :D
It's hard to realize but its made Master and i's relationship that much stronger facing all the health concerns that i have had lately. Since about 3 months ago, i have had tests come back abnormal then suddenly normal and enzyme levels return back high and then normal again. To me things arent making very much sense medically. To be honest, everything i have been showing are pregnancy symptoms to the t but all the tests come back negative. We just wonder if maybe i am showing a false positive because my mother never showed up on a urine test and she had her period the whole time she was pregnant with me. Either way Master and i would be happy regardless if i was pregnant or not.
My brain is beginning to wonder what is going on because it seems that i have a lot of days where i feel good, but if we go out running around for long hours on end it means that i usually end up exhausted and worn out and just feeling puky yucky. There are really no words to describe it. We are at our wits end trying to figure what is wrong with me and have just decided that it will be left to the experts. If they can find something, they will im sure of it even if it is as simple as telling me that im pregnant or that i need to have my gall bladder out. We are prepared to handle either or even if its not those. We both just want to know somehing because its been three months almost four of me battling my health---headaches to dizzyness/lightheadness to not being able to walk right balance wise to having major side pain and back pain. It's like things just cant get better for us.
The good news is for all of this is that i have been put in an office type job for my area that allows me to sit and only work a short number of hours until we can figure out what is wrong with me. If it means im pregnant, then i stay where im at. If not, then i stay at this new place until we figure out how long it will take me to get better. Either way i honestly like this new job better because it is way better suited for my personality and just everything that i know. I deal with people on a daily basis and love helping people solve their problems (if only i could do that with my own family problems then id be golden).
Beyond that i just have to say that i am thankful to have Master there for me in my life every step of the way. Never once have i felt alone in dealing with all these illnesses that have come up. He has never once called me a hypochondriac or said that He didnt believe what i was going through. He could always see the pain and agony on my face and was there rubbing my back and just doing whatever He could to make me comfortable. He is truly an amazing man and i am so thankful for Him as both my protector and Master. I only hope that i can return the favor one day if i need too. I love Him so much :D
Wednesday, June 1, 2011
Not sure anymore to be honest
So in the past, it seems that as i wrote or got my thoughts together, the more i figured things out. Today just doesnt seem to be the case. My thoughts are all scrambled and my emotions seem to always take me on a rollar coaster when i least expect it. The good thing about everything that has been going on recently is that Master has been by side every minute of every day and a couple good friends of mine have tried to do what they can to cheer me up.
When things progress from one thing to the other, i honestly get frustrated because it seems like they just think im lying about that one issue and another one has started up. My whole health situation started with a headache and moved to lightheadedness and dizzyness and then on to really bad side and back pain. There has been no let up in my health and i feel that i really have only been myself about 3-4 weeks total in this whole 4 month time period that everything has gone on.
Im beginning to feel lost because all the doctor's do now is try to mask my symptoms. Theyre not doing anything to treat them. This means i have to go back to work in the stress,heat, and long hours making myself even sicker then i was. My cycle has usually been that i go to work for a day or two and then i get horribly sick again because of the doctors just masking what's wrong with me. It also seems that none of them really want to listen to what my symptoms have been and my family history. Even though i dont have all the risk factors of it, my family genetics should play a role in it or they should be looking somewhere else. There are many cases where people have a gall bladder or appendix that is ready to explode and they didnt show any symptoms until it got really bad. My fear is that they will let it get to that point where it gets so bad that drastic action has to be taken.
Which on a side note, i can add a whole different symptom now. My whole body feels like it is achy and i have had a fever off and on yesterday and today. This makes me wonder what i have because i definitely dont want to have a fever or something contagious and end up going to work. Although, with as long as my problem has gone on i highly doubt im contagious. But still it sucks. My whole body aches to even be touched. His touch hurts slightly but i love it. His soft hands are the only ones that make me relax enough to ease me to sleep and He is the only one i trust to help me when i feel like this. He doesnt view me as someone who is making things up(and i hope He never does). There is just a feeling of hate from me because i keep getting better for a little bit and then i get sick all over again. :(
So my side pain now is so crazy that it feels like there are constantly people either squeezing or like i pulled a muscle in my sides. There is no pulled muscle though, it's more of a stabbing pain. It is just sucky because we have gotten to the point that the only solution for us is to wait and see the gastro and the laproscopic surgeon and hope they can give us some sort of comfort. Until then, i have to keep missing work and keep using the emergency room. My arms have had blood taken out of them so many times for the same tests over and over again that it probably wont be too much longer before they cant take it from there anymore and have to go somewhere else. They will NEVER do the top of my hand again though. It's WAY too painful there.
Anyways, i guess the jist of this whole thing is that i really feel lost and confused now. Every test that we have done has come back normal, except the hida scan. It didnt come back completely normal but it didnt come back completely abnormal either. It's just frustrating because i know that there is more then what the doctor's see going on, but they're not seeing the half of it. The stabbing pain in my back, the stabbing pain in my ribs, and the phantom ghost that seemed to grab my side and not let go. (have picture evidence of my side looking like it was caved in on my right side). There are unexplained ups and downs in my labs from they come back abnormal one day and come back normal the next. There's just no explanation to that or the fact that my kidney is still swollen, but there's nothing wrong according to a urologst. Mainly, i guess im just ready to know something and to be able to get comfortable again. It's bad when the only way i can really fall asleep is if Master slowly rubs His fingers up and down my back enough to where it relaxes me and i pass out.....Hopefully this time next week there will be some kind of news and to what is going on becasue this me right now doesnt feel like the real me that i know...
When things progress from one thing to the other, i honestly get frustrated because it seems like they just think im lying about that one issue and another one has started up. My whole health situation started with a headache and moved to lightheadedness and dizzyness and then on to really bad side and back pain. There has been no let up in my health and i feel that i really have only been myself about 3-4 weeks total in this whole 4 month time period that everything has gone on.
Im beginning to feel lost because all the doctor's do now is try to mask my symptoms. Theyre not doing anything to treat them. This means i have to go back to work in the stress,heat, and long hours making myself even sicker then i was. My cycle has usually been that i go to work for a day or two and then i get horribly sick again because of the doctors just masking what's wrong with me. It also seems that none of them really want to listen to what my symptoms have been and my family history. Even though i dont have all the risk factors of it, my family genetics should play a role in it or they should be looking somewhere else. There are many cases where people have a gall bladder or appendix that is ready to explode and they didnt show any symptoms until it got really bad. My fear is that they will let it get to that point where it gets so bad that drastic action has to be taken.
Which on a side note, i can add a whole different symptom now. My whole body feels like it is achy and i have had a fever off and on yesterday and today. This makes me wonder what i have because i definitely dont want to have a fever or something contagious and end up going to work. Although, with as long as my problem has gone on i highly doubt im contagious. But still it sucks. My whole body aches to even be touched. His touch hurts slightly but i love it. His soft hands are the only ones that make me relax enough to ease me to sleep and He is the only one i trust to help me when i feel like this. He doesnt view me as someone who is making things up(and i hope He never does). There is just a feeling of hate from me because i keep getting better for a little bit and then i get sick all over again. :(
So my side pain now is so crazy that it feels like there are constantly people either squeezing or like i pulled a muscle in my sides. There is no pulled muscle though, it's more of a stabbing pain. It is just sucky because we have gotten to the point that the only solution for us is to wait and see the gastro and the laproscopic surgeon and hope they can give us some sort of comfort. Until then, i have to keep missing work and keep using the emergency room. My arms have had blood taken out of them so many times for the same tests over and over again that it probably wont be too much longer before they cant take it from there anymore and have to go somewhere else. They will NEVER do the top of my hand again though. It's WAY too painful there.
Anyways, i guess the jist of this whole thing is that i really feel lost and confused now. Every test that we have done has come back normal, except the hida scan. It didnt come back completely normal but it didnt come back completely abnormal either. It's just frustrating because i know that there is more then what the doctor's see going on, but they're not seeing the half of it. The stabbing pain in my back, the stabbing pain in my ribs, and the phantom ghost that seemed to grab my side and not let go. (have picture evidence of my side looking like it was caved in on my right side). There are unexplained ups and downs in my labs from they come back abnormal one day and come back normal the next. There's just no explanation to that or the fact that my kidney is still swollen, but there's nothing wrong according to a urologst. Mainly, i guess im just ready to know something and to be able to get comfortable again. It's bad when the only way i can really fall asleep is if Master slowly rubs His fingers up and down my back enough to where it relaxes me and i pass out.....Hopefully this time next week there will be some kind of news and to what is going on becasue this me right now doesnt feel like the real me that i know...
Saturday, May 21, 2011
Feelings....
Today has been a long day and this next week is going to be even longer. The frustrations are mounting because nothing has been found about what is going on with me health wise. There have been results telling me my liver enzymes are high, now they're normal and then i have a uti and suddenly i dont and finally my pancreatic enzymes are high and my kidney is a little swollen but i guarantee it wont be like that when i go back to the doctor. Master isnt getting frustrated, or at least doesnt appear so, but i am getting extremely frustrated and a little worried. Honestly, im worried that all this is going to turn out to be something more serious. My health has always been good until now. These past three months i havent really worked but about 9-10 day total and ive been in the emergency room at least 13 times. This just isnt normal for anyone.....Oh well, i guess it's like Master says. You have to keep going through the list checking things off before you can find out what is wrong.
My sides and stomach are hurting and i feel like i am making the wrong decisions. Master may think otherwise, because He has left the decision up to me but i wonder if i made the right decision. Like this weekend i was given the choice as to whether or not i wanted to be hospitalized or if i wanted to go home. Being afraid of the hospital, i DID NOT want to stay over night. For some reason they terrify me. There is something about all this going on that im afraid if im in here overnight and Master has to go home to take care of our puppy that something will happen and He wont be there. Now i know this would never happen because He usually stays with me as long as He can, but at the same time it worries me. Being left alone is something that i absolutely hate and add a hospital into that and im just not comfortable at all. Either way though Master would never leave me alone. Anyways, i chose to go home and when we went to follow up with my doctor on Friday it wasnt even my own doctor. Lovely medical system wont let me see my own doctor, they keep sending me to a new one even though this doctor has been seeing me since all my medical problems started. Ugh yet another frustration to add to everything else.
So to date, ive had to deal with changing doctors and headaches changing to lightheadedness and dizzyness to side pain to side and back pain and now it seems my chest is adding to it. There is a spot on my rib cage on my right side that is super sensitive to barely touch it and i cant do anything about it. There's so much that keeps going on that i feel like i am honestly going numb to the feelings. Getting stuck so many times makes everything feel not so bad anymore. When you have a nurse who doesnt know how to start an iv digging around in the top of your hand, you learn real fast that the other pain you are experiencing isnt too bad compared to someone rooting around with a needle.
The other thing that has been caught on my mind all of a sudden is my grandma. All i can say is for some reason i find myself thinking about her and wanting to listen to the newest song by Justin Moore called "If Heaven Wasnt So Far Away". It is crazy how much love she put into my life and i cant believe that she is gone. We're having our wedding ceremony in a few weeks and i cant believe that she wont be there. It never occurred to me when we started planning it that she wouldnt be here. She has been gone for about three months now, but it still feels like yesterday to me. My feelings are mixed and some days im fine and other days i hear a song and it just hits me as to what is going on. She meant the world to me and now at one of the most important events in my life she wont be there. :( It makes me sad, but i know that she will be watching me from heaven that day. (Makes me think of another song...... Holes in the Floor of Heaven) His dad and my grandma will both be rejoicing that day!! Both of us know this and we will make sure to include them in memory for sure when we light our unity candles.
I love you Grandma. RIP and i hope to see you one day in heaven where i can be with you and grandpa.
My sides and stomach are hurting and i feel like i am making the wrong decisions. Master may think otherwise, because He has left the decision up to me but i wonder if i made the right decision. Like this weekend i was given the choice as to whether or not i wanted to be hospitalized or if i wanted to go home. Being afraid of the hospital, i DID NOT want to stay over night. For some reason they terrify me. There is something about all this going on that im afraid if im in here overnight and Master has to go home to take care of our puppy that something will happen and He wont be there. Now i know this would never happen because He usually stays with me as long as He can, but at the same time it worries me. Being left alone is something that i absolutely hate and add a hospital into that and im just not comfortable at all. Either way though Master would never leave me alone. Anyways, i chose to go home and when we went to follow up with my doctor on Friday it wasnt even my own doctor. Lovely medical system wont let me see my own doctor, they keep sending me to a new one even though this doctor has been seeing me since all my medical problems started. Ugh yet another frustration to add to everything else.
So to date, ive had to deal with changing doctors and headaches changing to lightheadedness and dizzyness to side pain to side and back pain and now it seems my chest is adding to it. There is a spot on my rib cage on my right side that is super sensitive to barely touch it and i cant do anything about it. There's so much that keeps going on that i feel like i am honestly going numb to the feelings. Getting stuck so many times makes everything feel not so bad anymore. When you have a nurse who doesnt know how to start an iv digging around in the top of your hand, you learn real fast that the other pain you are experiencing isnt too bad compared to someone rooting around with a needle.
The other thing that has been caught on my mind all of a sudden is my grandma. All i can say is for some reason i find myself thinking about her and wanting to listen to the newest song by Justin Moore called "If Heaven Wasnt So Far Away". It is crazy how much love she put into my life and i cant believe that she is gone. We're having our wedding ceremony in a few weeks and i cant believe that she wont be there. It never occurred to me when we started planning it that she wouldnt be here. She has been gone for about three months now, but it still feels like yesterday to me. My feelings are mixed and some days im fine and other days i hear a song and it just hits me as to what is going on. She meant the world to me and now at one of the most important events in my life she wont be there. :( It makes me sad, but i know that she will be watching me from heaven that day. (Makes me think of another song...... Holes in the Floor of Heaven) His dad and my grandma will both be rejoicing that day!! Both of us know this and we will make sure to include them in memory for sure when we light our unity candles.
I love you Grandma. RIP and i hope to see you one day in heaven where i can be with you and grandpa.
Monday, May 9, 2011
Massive blowup is looming over me....
So my blowup on a certain parent is nearing more and more. Lately Master and i have been planning our wedding, which is in the near future. Part of this was setting up all the details for our wedding on a website that i found to put all the details out there so everyone can have it as well as a paper invitation. Anyways, after reading the material that was posted on this website, i received a very nasty(to me) email from my mother. It just reminds me of the lovely cycle that seems to go around with her.
Before i go off ranting and raving on this, i have to put a disclaimer out there. If you dont want to hear the rantings and ravings about my mother and how she is dysfunctional then i highly suggest that you move on from this blog. That being sad, back to the topic at hand. She sent me a message over facebook(hmm odd that she couldnt call me about it at least) griping about how i said "i call GA my home even though it isnt where i grew up because it is where my heart is and where a majority of my family is---" She took this directly from the site and i received a lovely reply message from her quoting this and also saying "did i miss something or did we all move to GA" and "i copied this from your wedding blog---thought most of your family was in TN".
This just unnerves me and aggravates me. She has constantly been bipolar with me. It is as if she is constantly evaluating everything im doing. When there is something that she doesnt like i hear about it. Im 21 years old and am still getting treated like im a child by her. She is biploar and nobody has seen this except for Master and myself.. My mother has everyone else believing that she is this perfect person and has no flaws, but this is wrong. She leads two completely different lifestyles for everyone. On one hand, she acts like life is perfect and that im the perfect child who can do no wrong, but when it's just the two of us she bites my head off and acts like an evil conniving witch. This is really starting to get to me and i know that it is really starting to get to Master. He sees everything she is doing as the same that another person in His life did to Him.
Honestly, i would admit that if it wasnt for the fact that i had a wedding coming up soon, she would have been told off a long time ago. She constantly demeans me and makes comments on how i cant afford things or i cant do this because she doesnt think i can. Master doesnt work right now, although His family thinks He does and we arent going to tell them otherwise. He doesnt have to work because we are completely fine with just my income alone. If we needed the money He could easily get a job, but for now we both love Him staying at home. Either way though, she doesnt need to be commenting on what i can or cant do. She should be happy at how i am doing and say otherwise like any other normal parent would do. The two of us just bought our first major purchase---a big screen tv. Yes we didnt have to, but we wanted to and had saved up for it. It wasnt like a super splurge and we wouldnt have any money after we spent it. No, we still had a lot of excess money to pay bills after that. His family when we told them about the tv said good job about getting it, but my family doesnt know. If they were to know id get asked how i could afford that.
She is my mother and i honestly lover, but my fuse is getting to the point where i dont want to have anything to do with her. If it wasnt for the fact that im getting married in two months, i would have said see you later a long time ago. Her and my father have mentioned reservations on whether or not they will be coming to the wedding and have also admitted that they dont want to talk to my grandfather about my father's changes because they feel the day wont be about them. When i told my parents to talk to my grandfather, i got told that they would refuse to do it because either way the day wasnt going to be about him, it would still be about me. However, i know my grandfather better then that although i am hoping He would make a scene just between my parents and away from everyone else. My mother even told me that she wasnt sure he was coming, but i know how much he loves me and how important this day is to me. I highly doubt that he is going to miss that day.
The comment on facebook isnt the only thing that my mother has done. Things have long since been building since i left for college. Master and i have talked and we both believe that it is my mother trying to hold onto some sort of control because she is not used to the idea of me growing up. My thoughts are so confused surrounding this because i feel that even if she wants control, she should have realized by now that she doesnt have the control anymore---Master does. Either way it doesnt matter if she tries to gain any control, Master will ALWAYS have the control over me. Not only that, this is the control that I gave Him. It wasnt taken from me, but fairly given.
So my heart is torn as to what to do. Master urges me to go ahead and tell her what i think and that i shouldnt really hold back. He has been down this road before and knows how ugly it gets. The other thing is that my mother purchased a lot of the supplies for the wedding. My feeling is i dont want to tell her off, but it is like things keep escalating with her. She keeps putting things into other people's mouths about the wedding, is refusing to talk to my grandfather about my dad's sex change operation and lifestyle, and just is unhappy that i feel like my home is here in GA instead of TN with them. My thoughts are that it doesnt matter if they live there or not. My home to me is where my heart is. My heart is no where in TN because i dont feel like i can live there anymore. There are so many rules and curfews and it's more like im a guest in my own home then where i can live. When im down here with Master, whether with His family or alone in our house i feel way more at home then anything. Master's family always makes sure that i am taken care of and has been more then willing to help provide us anything we need to help start our new home.
So as you can see, my heart is torn. It's more then likely if i tell my mother off now she wont be at the wedding. It will most definitely hurt her when i go off on her, although it will be more then likely in writing format because our talks on the phone just turn into arguments. My heart hurts because i have to make this choice, but at the same time i feel that i will be okay because of it. Master has always been there for me from the beginning and i know He will continue to do so. He is my number one supporter and i have found through all these fights with my mother and father(who still isnt speaking to me because of a fight) that He loves me and swears everytime He will be there. My parents need to learn that they dont control me anymore and im very afraid that i will have to make the choice to let them know that they will have to change or i wont be in their lives anymore. Yes it may alienate me from them, but i know the rest of my family will understand and if they dont talk to me, i always have a family down here to take care of me that i know will love me and Master no matter what. Now what to say to my mother in a reply to her facebook message to me........
Before i go off ranting and raving on this, i have to put a disclaimer out there. If you dont want to hear the rantings and ravings about my mother and how she is dysfunctional then i highly suggest that you move on from this blog. That being sad, back to the topic at hand. She sent me a message over facebook(hmm odd that she couldnt call me about it at least) griping about how i said "i call GA my home even though it isnt where i grew up because it is where my heart is and where a majority of my family is---" She took this directly from the site and i received a lovely reply message from her quoting this and also saying "did i miss something or did we all move to GA" and "i copied this from your wedding blog---thought most of your family was in TN".
This just unnerves me and aggravates me. She has constantly been bipolar with me. It is as if she is constantly evaluating everything im doing. When there is something that she doesnt like i hear about it. Im 21 years old and am still getting treated like im a child by her. She is biploar and nobody has seen this except for Master and myself.. My mother has everyone else believing that she is this perfect person and has no flaws, but this is wrong. She leads two completely different lifestyles for everyone. On one hand, she acts like life is perfect and that im the perfect child who can do no wrong, but when it's just the two of us she bites my head off and acts like an evil conniving witch. This is really starting to get to me and i know that it is really starting to get to Master. He sees everything she is doing as the same that another person in His life did to Him.
Honestly, i would admit that if it wasnt for the fact that i had a wedding coming up soon, she would have been told off a long time ago. She constantly demeans me and makes comments on how i cant afford things or i cant do this because she doesnt think i can. Master doesnt work right now, although His family thinks He does and we arent going to tell them otherwise. He doesnt have to work because we are completely fine with just my income alone. If we needed the money He could easily get a job, but for now we both love Him staying at home. Either way though, she doesnt need to be commenting on what i can or cant do. She should be happy at how i am doing and say otherwise like any other normal parent would do. The two of us just bought our first major purchase---a big screen tv. Yes we didnt have to, but we wanted to and had saved up for it. It wasnt like a super splurge and we wouldnt have any money after we spent it. No, we still had a lot of excess money to pay bills after that. His family when we told them about the tv said good job about getting it, but my family doesnt know. If they were to know id get asked how i could afford that.
She is my mother and i honestly lover, but my fuse is getting to the point where i dont want to have anything to do with her. If it wasnt for the fact that im getting married in two months, i would have said see you later a long time ago. Her and my father have mentioned reservations on whether or not they will be coming to the wedding and have also admitted that they dont want to talk to my grandfather about my father's changes because they feel the day wont be about them. When i told my parents to talk to my grandfather, i got told that they would refuse to do it because either way the day wasnt going to be about him, it would still be about me. However, i know my grandfather better then that although i am hoping He would make a scene just between my parents and away from everyone else. My mother even told me that she wasnt sure he was coming, but i know how much he loves me and how important this day is to me. I highly doubt that he is going to miss that day.
The comment on facebook isnt the only thing that my mother has done. Things have long since been building since i left for college. Master and i have talked and we both believe that it is my mother trying to hold onto some sort of control because she is not used to the idea of me growing up. My thoughts are so confused surrounding this because i feel that even if she wants control, she should have realized by now that she doesnt have the control anymore---Master does. Either way it doesnt matter if she tries to gain any control, Master will ALWAYS have the control over me. Not only that, this is the control that I gave Him. It wasnt taken from me, but fairly given.
So my heart is torn as to what to do. Master urges me to go ahead and tell her what i think and that i shouldnt really hold back. He has been down this road before and knows how ugly it gets. The other thing is that my mother purchased a lot of the supplies for the wedding. My feeling is i dont want to tell her off, but it is like things keep escalating with her. She keeps putting things into other people's mouths about the wedding, is refusing to talk to my grandfather about my dad's sex change operation and lifestyle, and just is unhappy that i feel like my home is here in GA instead of TN with them. My thoughts are that it doesnt matter if they live there or not. My home to me is where my heart is. My heart is no where in TN because i dont feel like i can live there anymore. There are so many rules and curfews and it's more like im a guest in my own home then where i can live. When im down here with Master, whether with His family or alone in our house i feel way more at home then anything. Master's family always makes sure that i am taken care of and has been more then willing to help provide us anything we need to help start our new home.
So as you can see, my heart is torn. It's more then likely if i tell my mother off now she wont be at the wedding. It will most definitely hurt her when i go off on her, although it will be more then likely in writing format because our talks on the phone just turn into arguments. My heart hurts because i have to make this choice, but at the same time i feel that i will be okay because of it. Master has always been there for me from the beginning and i know He will continue to do so. He is my number one supporter and i have found through all these fights with my mother and father(who still isnt speaking to me because of a fight) that He loves me and swears everytime He will be there. My parents need to learn that they dont control me anymore and im very afraid that i will have to make the choice to let them know that they will have to change or i wont be in their lives anymore. Yes it may alienate me from them, but i know the rest of my family will understand and if they dont talk to me, i always have a family down here to take care of me that i know will love me and Master no matter what. Now what to say to my mother in a reply to her facebook message to me........
Saturday, May 7, 2011
An Eventful Day....Really :)
So today has been a long day but a pretty uneventful one at that. After last night, i have realized that sometimes miscommunications come out leaving you better on the other side. After writing a blog yesterday, there was a bit of a misunderstanding as to how i wrote it. I made it seem as if Master wasnt doing anything around the house and that just wasnt the case. He does a lot more then i realize and has had to deal with a lot of His fair share of everything with my many ER visits recently.
This brought on a huge punishment, more because i was sobbing becasue i felt that i had screwed everything up. Master kept reassuring me that i had done nothing wrong, but i felt that i did. It wasnt long before i saw the words telling me to get His belt and stand leaning on the bed with my pants down and wait til He came in sometime in the future. Just as i was finishing and had been laying on the bed not even a minute, i heard Him enter. There were still tears falling and i felt that i had screwed up so horribly. Master grabbed His belt and i felt Him judge my skin as He rubbed His hand over my backside before delivering the first blow. To me it was a shockwave and i screamed into the blanket that i had grabbed up under me. As the session continued and the blows kept coming, i found myself struggling to maintain my bearing. It wasnt too long before Master had to hold my hands behind my back. Honestly i fight the feelings everytime to hold them, but there's that one hit that makes me have to send them back to cover my rear end for some reason. It's like it's in our DNA to do this. We try as hard as we can to keep them from flying back, but they just fly back as always.
Anyways, needless to say my brain lost count after about the fourth or fifth hit from Master's belt. It has been a good while since i have felt the lick of it's blows and even after there was still a reminder in the few small welts that i had from it. After being spanked til i couldnt stand anymore and then played with and used by Master until He came all over me, i was placed in the corner. All i could do was silently cry. He had truly given me a reason to cry because i was crying for no reason before, i was no longer crying for nothing now. Crying, i realized that i had put myself in this predicament and all i could think of was how could i put myself in this situation? It left me feeling humiliated and just i felt horrible that i had made Master punish me. It was something i hadnt had to have in a good while. After a few minutes,or what felt like an eternity to me, Master came back in and put warm clothes on me and guided me to sit with Him on the couch and watch tv. My brain was still foggy with everything because i honestly was half way to subspace by the end of the spanking. When He put my clothes on all i could think of was it was cold and trying to voice anything to Him was going to take a little bit.
After sitting with Master on the couch and thinking back to what just happened, i realized it was something that needed to happen in my opinion. Honestly i think i had been careless in thinking just how much Master does around here. He has done so much for me and i questioned on some things that i thought He should help me on. It was wrong of me and i paid the price. Also it was needed for me to realize that things were okay with how they were going. Master and i havent participated actively in the lifestyle recently because of my health concerns. He has been more medical minded then Master minded because that is how He is trained to be. My brain didnt realize this before, but after talking with Master today i have realized the gap in the lifestyle are because He was more concerned about my health concerns. Needless to say the spanking from last night just made me feel like i was back to myself.
So as i talked with Master today, we realized that lately i have felt bummed because i feel that my being sick has defined a good bit of who i am. All the doctor's visits and not being able to work or perform like im supposed to makes me feel like im weak and just not able to be who i am. Last night was a well overdue reminded that even though i may be sick, it does not define who i am. I am still Master's submissive. I am still lil one. My place is still understood and i am not to step out of that place. All i can say in word's to describe it is that i feel the trouble i got into last night was somehow needed because today i find myself a little bit more at piece with things, although that doesnt mean im necessarily pain free.
Tonight i find myself in pain in my back, my knee has begun to flare up again and my right side is still hurting. It seems to vary with what i eat, but most of the time it's a dull pain. On top of that my head is starting to flare up really bad. Bad enough that i'm going to have to take one of my other pain killers to try and keep it subsided enough that i dont end up back in the emergency room. Those visits have taken enough blood out of me to save at least 6-7 people and the nurses have made me afraid to have an iv put in my arm now. The two that didnt know what they were doing have scared me for life, although out of it all we have two hilarious recordings on our phones of me with Demerol in my system. All i know is that is some good medication, but i dont ever remember what i say or do while im on it and im glad that Master is right there beside me once they give it to me. He keeps me from getting up and doing silly things, but yet still has fun in my drug induced comments. Hopefully there's no more in my future because i really dont want to go there anymore.
This brought on a huge punishment, more because i was sobbing becasue i felt that i had screwed everything up. Master kept reassuring me that i had done nothing wrong, but i felt that i did. It wasnt long before i saw the words telling me to get His belt and stand leaning on the bed with my pants down and wait til He came in sometime in the future. Just as i was finishing and had been laying on the bed not even a minute, i heard Him enter. There were still tears falling and i felt that i had screwed up so horribly. Master grabbed His belt and i felt Him judge my skin as He rubbed His hand over my backside before delivering the first blow. To me it was a shockwave and i screamed into the blanket that i had grabbed up under me. As the session continued and the blows kept coming, i found myself struggling to maintain my bearing. It wasnt too long before Master had to hold my hands behind my back. Honestly i fight the feelings everytime to hold them, but there's that one hit that makes me have to send them back to cover my rear end for some reason. It's like it's in our DNA to do this. We try as hard as we can to keep them from flying back, but they just fly back as always.
Anyways, needless to say my brain lost count after about the fourth or fifth hit from Master's belt. It has been a good while since i have felt the lick of it's blows and even after there was still a reminder in the few small welts that i had from it. After being spanked til i couldnt stand anymore and then played with and used by Master until He came all over me, i was placed in the corner. All i could do was silently cry. He had truly given me a reason to cry because i was crying for no reason before, i was no longer crying for nothing now. Crying, i realized that i had put myself in this predicament and all i could think of was how could i put myself in this situation? It left me feeling humiliated and just i felt horrible that i had made Master punish me. It was something i hadnt had to have in a good while. After a few minutes,or what felt like an eternity to me, Master came back in and put warm clothes on me and guided me to sit with Him on the couch and watch tv. My brain was still foggy with everything because i honestly was half way to subspace by the end of the spanking. When He put my clothes on all i could think of was it was cold and trying to voice anything to Him was going to take a little bit.
After sitting with Master on the couch and thinking back to what just happened, i realized it was something that needed to happen in my opinion. Honestly i think i had been careless in thinking just how much Master does around here. He has done so much for me and i questioned on some things that i thought He should help me on. It was wrong of me and i paid the price. Also it was needed for me to realize that things were okay with how they were going. Master and i havent participated actively in the lifestyle recently because of my health concerns. He has been more medical minded then Master minded because that is how He is trained to be. My brain didnt realize this before, but after talking with Master today i have realized the gap in the lifestyle are because He was more concerned about my health concerns. Needless to say the spanking from last night just made me feel like i was back to myself.
So as i talked with Master today, we realized that lately i have felt bummed because i feel that my being sick has defined a good bit of who i am. All the doctor's visits and not being able to work or perform like im supposed to makes me feel like im weak and just not able to be who i am. Last night was a well overdue reminded that even though i may be sick, it does not define who i am. I am still Master's submissive. I am still lil one. My place is still understood and i am not to step out of that place. All i can say in word's to describe it is that i feel the trouble i got into last night was somehow needed because today i find myself a little bit more at piece with things, although that doesnt mean im necessarily pain free.
Tonight i find myself in pain in my back, my knee has begun to flare up again and my right side is still hurting. It seems to vary with what i eat, but most of the time it's a dull pain. On top of that my head is starting to flare up really bad. Bad enough that i'm going to have to take one of my other pain killers to try and keep it subsided enough that i dont end up back in the emergency room. Those visits have taken enough blood out of me to save at least 6-7 people and the nurses have made me afraid to have an iv put in my arm now. The two that didnt know what they were doing have scared me for life, although out of it all we have two hilarious recordings on our phones of me with Demerol in my system. All i know is that is some good medication, but i dont ever remember what i say or do while im on it and im glad that Master is right there beside me once they give it to me. He keeps me from getting up and doing silly things, but yet still has fun in my drug induced comments. Hopefully there's no more in my future because i really dont want to go there anymore.
Friday, May 6, 2011
Mind over Submission or Submission over Mind?
So today i have noticed that lately my mind has been battling my submissive side a lot lately. Well maybe its not my mind, but so much how i was raised and the thoughts that were constantly told weren't right in my head. I guess the best place for me to start is to explain everything.
Growing up, i knew that i was different. There was just something about the relationships that i had and the way the guys treated me. The guys were always nice and just a complete gentleman but i knew there was more that i wanted then just that. As i got into my teens, i began looking into chat rooms to talk to other people just to kill time. I was always by myself and never really had anyone to play games with me because i was the youngest and between me and the next oldest was nine years. Needless to say, two full time job parents and an in school teen left a lot of time to kill in between the time i got home and when my parents would come home. I chatted with a lot of people and let's just say i talked with a bunch of guys older then me, much more then i should have and at the time i didnt know it was so wrong. I was surfing for chat rooms one day and came across a website talking about the lifestyle.
The lifestyle has always been something that interested me. To me it was my escape for everything. It is the personality that i have although it seems some of my more stubborn sides seem to come out at times, but that's more family genes then anything. But as i researched it more and more i found that i had what was called a submissive personality. Being in a normal vanilla relationship just wasnt going to cut it for me. There was more that i needed. I needed for the man to have control and to guide me and also correct me when i did wrong. Little did i know then but i would get what i wanted.
Growing up, i have always had to fight to get everything i had. My parents forced me to grow up fast and learn how to make dinner and pretty much take care of myself. My homework was done when i got home and i was left to do whatever to kill time until my parents got home to eat dinner and then watch tv before it was off to bed for me. We never really interacted together so it left lots of time for me. Add into that a personal computer in a teenager's room and you have a combination for what i developed.
Guessing that the reason that i want someone to be in control is that my life has never been under control for me. It has always had it's mess of ups and downs and i was always in fear that my parent's arguing would result in them divorcing or something else happening. There was very little that was for sure for me because things were always never good enough with them too. I guess deep down i wanted someone who was going to tell me that what i did was okay and that it was okay not to be perfect. Growing up i had always been told that it wasnt perfect and i could do better even when i was so close to perfect. Meeting Master changed all this.
Master is my whole world and i love it. He is the solid piece of ground and i know that no matter what life hands us, i will be stable and have a place to fall. We may not have everything figured out, and that's normal, but He makes me realize that things dont always have to be perfect. But the one thing that i struggle on when it comes to our relationship is when it comes to me doing a lot of the things around the house. Growing up, i was taught that the man had to help the woman in a lot of things, but it seems the lifestyle contradicts this thought a lot. There are times i just want to come out and ask Him why He isnt helping, but i have worked very hard at keeping my comments in check. It is easier to talk to Him about these things, but what usually ends up happening is i think about it later and realize that i was just having a stubborn moment and going back to how i was raised. Now this isnt anything against how i was raised because despite not believing that the man shouldnt do anything in the relationship, i dont believe that. It is the submissive's place to take care of her Master and His house and if that means im getting the dog food or im doing extra loads of laundry then so be it. There are times that my mind is going to want to gripe and complain, but i have learned to keep these in check.
My concern is that sometimes these moments may over power me, but i dont want that to happen. I wonder if other people have these moments where thoughts of rebellion and just popping off with "why cant you do that?" or "why cant you use that again?", but we dont. I feel that maybe it is just how i was raised coming up inside me every now and then and making me think that this is wrong and He should be helping too, but my submissive side keeps it in check and reminds that it is my place to take care of these things. Yes, He should help but He doesnt have to if He wants to. He is the man of the house and in charge of everything around here. What He says goes and that's it. No ifs, ands, or buts about it when it comes to my concern. Now saying that, i am not just a doormat in any decision making process...He takes into account what i think of things or how i feel about certain issues before making judgements because yes He is a caring Master. Either way i have found a struggle going on recently with the two halves of my brain struggling to realize that the lifestyle is more important in my life and that when i was raised and taught it was bad, it really wasnt. It's actually good because this lifestyle has completely turned me around from who i used to be to who i am now. Who knows where i will be in the future, but i know it will be a much happier place with Master by my side and the lifestyle fully in our lives.
Sorry for the rambling on and on but this is a thought that just occured to me. My mind constantly goes back and forth and maybe one day i will be able to say which side won the argument. For now i know that my submissive side is keeping myself fully in check and i hope it stays that way.
****for those reading this, this is in no way saying that my Master doesnt help out around the house. He helps out more then His fair share. The thoughts above are at times when i just get frustrated because there is so much to do, and i forget to realize all the work that He is doing too. My mind comes up with these thoughts that He is able to do this, but why am i doing it. These thoughts are wrong because for every one thing that im doing, He is doing like three. He brought this to my attention that it came off this way and i just want to put this out there that He definitely is not just sitting idly by as i clean the house or take care of the dog. He helps me and is often doing more then His fair share, especially since i have been sick. I honestly hope He realizes just how thankful i am for the times that He does help me out becasue without Him i wouldnt have made it this far or dealt with all the sickness and hospital visits i had if it werent for Him being cheerful and happy and reminding me of the little things in life.****
Growing up, i knew that i was different. There was just something about the relationships that i had and the way the guys treated me. The guys were always nice and just a complete gentleman but i knew there was more that i wanted then just that. As i got into my teens, i began looking into chat rooms to talk to other people just to kill time. I was always by myself and never really had anyone to play games with me because i was the youngest and between me and the next oldest was nine years. Needless to say, two full time job parents and an in school teen left a lot of time to kill in between the time i got home and when my parents would come home. I chatted with a lot of people and let's just say i talked with a bunch of guys older then me, much more then i should have and at the time i didnt know it was so wrong. I was surfing for chat rooms one day and came across a website talking about the lifestyle.
The lifestyle has always been something that interested me. To me it was my escape for everything. It is the personality that i have although it seems some of my more stubborn sides seem to come out at times, but that's more family genes then anything. But as i researched it more and more i found that i had what was called a submissive personality. Being in a normal vanilla relationship just wasnt going to cut it for me. There was more that i needed. I needed for the man to have control and to guide me and also correct me when i did wrong. Little did i know then but i would get what i wanted.
Growing up, i have always had to fight to get everything i had. My parents forced me to grow up fast and learn how to make dinner and pretty much take care of myself. My homework was done when i got home and i was left to do whatever to kill time until my parents got home to eat dinner and then watch tv before it was off to bed for me. We never really interacted together so it left lots of time for me. Add into that a personal computer in a teenager's room and you have a combination for what i developed.
Guessing that the reason that i want someone to be in control is that my life has never been under control for me. It has always had it's mess of ups and downs and i was always in fear that my parent's arguing would result in them divorcing or something else happening. There was very little that was for sure for me because things were always never good enough with them too. I guess deep down i wanted someone who was going to tell me that what i did was okay and that it was okay not to be perfect. Growing up i had always been told that it wasnt perfect and i could do better even when i was so close to perfect. Meeting Master changed all this.
Master is my whole world and i love it. He is the solid piece of ground and i know that no matter what life hands us, i will be stable and have a place to fall. We may not have everything figured out, and that's normal, but He makes me realize that things dont always have to be perfect. But the one thing that i struggle on when it comes to our relationship is when it comes to me doing a lot of the things around the house. Growing up, i was taught that the man had to help the woman in a lot of things, but it seems the lifestyle contradicts this thought a lot. There are times i just want to come out and ask Him why He isnt helping, but i have worked very hard at keeping my comments in check. It is easier to talk to Him about these things, but what usually ends up happening is i think about it later and realize that i was just having a stubborn moment and going back to how i was raised. Now this isnt anything against how i was raised because despite not believing that the man shouldnt do anything in the relationship, i dont believe that. It is the submissive's place to take care of her Master and His house and if that means im getting the dog food or im doing extra loads of laundry then so be it. There are times that my mind is going to want to gripe and complain, but i have learned to keep these in check.
My concern is that sometimes these moments may over power me, but i dont want that to happen. I wonder if other people have these moments where thoughts of rebellion and just popping off with "why cant you do that?" or "why cant you use that again?", but we dont. I feel that maybe it is just how i was raised coming up inside me every now and then and making me think that this is wrong and He should be helping too, but my submissive side keeps it in check and reminds that it is my place to take care of these things. Yes, He should help but He doesnt have to if He wants to. He is the man of the house and in charge of everything around here. What He says goes and that's it. No ifs, ands, or buts about it when it comes to my concern. Now saying that, i am not just a doormat in any decision making process...He takes into account what i think of things or how i feel about certain issues before making judgements because yes He is a caring Master. Either way i have found a struggle going on recently with the two halves of my brain struggling to realize that the lifestyle is more important in my life and that when i was raised and taught it was bad, it really wasnt. It's actually good because this lifestyle has completely turned me around from who i used to be to who i am now. Who knows where i will be in the future, but i know it will be a much happier place with Master by my side and the lifestyle fully in our lives.
Sorry for the rambling on and on but this is a thought that just occured to me. My mind constantly goes back and forth and maybe one day i will be able to say which side won the argument. For now i know that my submissive side is keeping myself fully in check and i hope it stays that way.
****for those reading this, this is in no way saying that my Master doesnt help out around the house. He helps out more then His fair share. The thoughts above are at times when i just get frustrated because there is so much to do, and i forget to realize all the work that He is doing too. My mind comes up with these thoughts that He is able to do this, but why am i doing it. These thoughts are wrong because for every one thing that im doing, He is doing like three. He brought this to my attention that it came off this way and i just want to put this out there that He definitely is not just sitting idly by as i clean the house or take care of the dog. He helps me and is often doing more then His fair share, especially since i have been sick. I honestly hope He realizes just how thankful i am for the times that He does help me out becasue without Him i wouldnt have made it this far or dealt with all the sickness and hospital visits i had if it werent for Him being cheerful and happy and reminding me of the little things in life.****
Thursday, May 5, 2011
Beginning of my new beginning lol
I said before in a previous post that i was going to reexamine my likes and dislikes in the lifestyle and wow i can just say that a lot of it has changed from what i used to know. There are things that before Master i would just completely break down and say there was no way in hell that it would happen, but now im begging for it. He is the man of my dreams and is the only person that i would trust to do half the things that are listed. There are so many things that you could try doing that we havent even done. I guess the best place to start is dividing them up by category and seeing where i go from there. These are just ideas and will more then likely be discussed with Master, but for now i feel that i need to get out into the open what id like to try and what ive done with both intermixed...Hope the talk goes well with Master once He reads these or there is a comment on here. Let's get started on the list...it may not be all inclusive either as im still finding out what i like and dont like.
-----list below is what i've tried or would like to try in the future with Master
Just to Experience It
watching a porn movie/show with Master
i havent seen one before and id like to watch one with Master and maybe try to act something out that He'd like to see
1950s household
our household already is a good bit like this :) i love it and i love when Master just enjoys being at home with me here
Victorian household
this has similarities to the 1950s household style where the man is in charge but there are other things used such as corner time and other things...with the way i can sometimes come off as extremely bratty i like this idea of this kind of household very much or combining the two together...either way i like the ideas used by this lifestyle
Role Playing
fantasy rape
only with Master and everything would have to be laid out because of my fears and past
interrogations
idk what exactly this would involve but seems interesting
kidnappings
same rules with fantasy rape apply here too
prison scenes
doctor/patient
i love the idea of Master playing doctor or even medic on me and try to treat whatevers wrong with me
Sexual Play
anal play/anal sex
anal plugs/beads
anal plugs/beads outdoors
under clothes and stays private
fisting(vaginal)
seems hardcore but if He wanted to try it id go for it)
forced homosexuality(being used by friends)
if He wanted me to do something with 2 certain people i would but they are the only ones)
genital sex(ABSOLUTELY LOVE IT!!!!)
anal sex
love this despite the pain its like a good painful sensation lol
hand jobs (giving & receiving)
i like both because either way there is possibly a reward of some kind whether its His pleasure, mine, or
both of us getting pleasure i dont care)
head(giving & receiving)
same as above i love the way it feels when Master goes down on me...for the longest time i have wanted to squirt for Him but have yet to do so :( but its an awesome feeling making Him feel good and when He does it to me especially when they're both together)
sex(heterosexual)
same as genital and anal sex!! i absolutely LOVE IT and love when Master just goes to town on me and messes with my head by pounding the hardest He can into my wet pussy oh man does it feel so good when He does that or with my legs over my head....mmmm getting ahead of myself lol)
swallowing(cum)
lol love it especially when its Master's because i know then that i have done a good job and He is completely satisfied)
talking dirty(talker/talkee)
not sure about doing the talking because im not very good at dirty talk but i always love hearing how im such a naughty slut in my ear from Him
tickling
i dont mind being tickled at all and He knows it...it is definitely something i love
vibrators
i think these would be the death of me if they were used but right now we dont own one...who knows our toy cabinet may expand in the future
wrestling
this is a good part of the play aspect for me...its why i love playing hide and seek or chase with it...its the thrill and the fun for me trying to at least hold my own even if it is for a little bit
Exhibitionism
collars(in public)
this is something i wouldnt do unless it was a casual piece of jewelry meant to act as a collar...the necklace i wear now with the two rings joined together to me symbolizes my collar and has not been removed unless it was for medical reasons
forced masturbation
i couldnt necessarily do this at first, but i think now that at some point in the future if Master wanted me to do it for Him i would be able to do it although this wasnt the case when we first got together because i was so shy and would have been so nervous trying to do it
forced nudity(private)
if it was just Master and myself or a couple of our friends i would be okay with it because they would be in the lifestyle, but im not one to be showing around other people and i dont think Master is either but i could be wrong
humiliation, verbal(public)
this is a big turn on for me...it is crazy how i can just get one look and be reprimanded so quick while others are around that they have no clue what's going on...im not completely into being out and in the public's face but it turns me on to get in trouble and threatened with being spanked right then and there or get the "wait til we get home" look
modeling(for erotic photos)
this case is one that in the past i would have been completely against it but in all honest i would have said no......now i think it is kind of cool and would love trying it at some point....there is something thrilling about taking pictures just Master and i knowing that we would be the only ones to see it
outdoor scenes/sex
as long as it was kept private this would be amazing....i would love to go camping with Master and just experience a punishment out in the wild where you can do whatever you want and nobody is going to be able to do a thing about it or you can have sex and be as loud as you want with nature to cover the sounds up lol
Discipline/Submission
24/7 total power exchange
now i love this and wish it was an everyday thing in our life...to me 24/7 means that we live it not just in the bedroom but in everyday....it doesnt matter what we're doing i am always going to be His submissive and He my Master
begging/pleading
i used to think that it was above me to have to beg or plead someone for something but in all honesty i kind of like the idea of begging to be allowed to cum or having to beg for something from Master it really turns me on
chores(domestic service/housework)
now that we live in our own house it is even easier for this to become an option in our lives...i kind of would like this to happen to where i have set things to do around my schedule and if they arent done or something forgotten there is a punishment for it....kind of like making sure the clothes are put in the dryer and folded and if not for every item i get five hits or something along those lines...im sure Master could come up with something creative
exercise(forced/required)
with my shape not being the best right now, i hope that Master will implement at least a walk or something every night to keep up my current physical condition because it is my stress reliever and He has seen how stressed out i can get....this also keeps me from getting too unhealthy and out of shape
following orders
i guess this goes without saying...whatever He says goes and i need to learn that...sometimes my stubborness gets ahead of me and i tend to argue, so i guess i need to learn more about patience on some things and realize when i need to fight my battles and when i need to leave them alone
hair shaving(body/genitalia)
this has been a rule for the two of us since the beginning, but i have found that i have been sliding on it since i came out of my training for the military...crazy enough but i think that i need to get back to doing this especially with Master being able to use me and play with me a lot more in our own house
humiliation, verbal(private)
enough said before when it came to the thought of humiliation verbal in public....i love the idea of it
kneeling
granted i may not be able to do it for long periods of time, but there are modified versions of it...either way i love when the moments happen because it makes me realize just where my place is and it just puts me in that right frame of mind....takes me back to lessons i learned from a story i read
lectures(for misbehavior)
when you combine this with a spanking and put in the corner, oh is it a bad night for me....i hate being lectured especially when i have done wrong because it reminds me even more of just how much i have disappointed Master...it makes me feel even lower and i beg to take whatever punishment He would give me to escape the shame and low feelings my misbehavior has caused
massage(giving)
love giving them to Master because they make Him so relaxed and it feels sooooo good for Him
orgasm control
enough said on this one....love it when i can feel it coming and Master keeps holding me off until i dont think i can hold it anymore
punishment
i love getting the punishments i deserve and sometimes love getting the reminders ones because it reminds just where i stand and that yes i may get bratty sometimes but i am not the one in control of things, He is
standing in the corner
this is another humiliation thing for me...it just takes me back to when i was a child and i was made to stand in the corner...i hate not being able to move or talk and this is a combination of both of those for me...so this is a terrible punishment especially when i can hear something going on and i want to see it but i cant----like a good tv show
Masochism
being bitten
being bitten to me makes it all worthwhile because i can show off proudly the mark that my Master left...it lets me know that im loved and that im His if He is willing to mark me with His own bite mark
belts(being beaten with one)
i dont hate it but i dont exactly like it either...when faced with the choice to choose between this or a harsher punishment implement...id gladly choose this one
hairbrush spankings
granted i hate it but love it at the same time....there is just something about how Master spanks me with it then uses it to play with my pussy more and more until i cant take it anymore...there's so much heat coming from my pussy and so much heat coming from my butt that it just overpowers me
sensory deprivation
i love it when i lose the senses when Master is playing with me...at first i didnt like too much the idea of losing the ability to see, but after experiencing it i realized that i loved being immobilized and not being able to see what Master is doing to me...it turned me on that much more and made me jump with everything He did
whipping
i havent officially been whipped yet because the one i got Master is just a play one, but i think it hurts like crap anyways i wouldnt want to see what the real one felt like....either way i like the way it feels but hate it at the same time...i think im slightly into pain but i cant do a whole lot of it
wooden paddles
these just make me think of what it would be like being a sorority pledge and getting a spanking from the paddle as part of the intiation although i know that kind of stuff "doesnt happen" on college campuses, lol i know it does its just not talked about
Bondage
blindfolds
again i like the feeling of not knowing what is about to happen to me...it makes it that much more sensuous for me...id love to try it one night where im handcuffed together and unable to move and gagged and blindfolded and Master just has fun....i love the idea of a blindfold :)
bondage(light)
havent really tried any bondage yet but i would love to...id love to see what its like to be tied up and unable to move certain body parts
bondage(heavy)
hmmmm....wonder what itd be like unable to move or tied in a certain position as punishment for a little while....im sure Master could get real creative with this
cages/confinement(locked inside of)
in all honesty in the past i would have completely flat out said no to this, but i find it funny in a way....it would be something cool to try to at least say i tried it...i trust Master and know that He would keep me safe, but i honestly cant say flat out no to this idea anymore...i may laugh and tell Master no but id at least give it a try if He wanted to try it
chains
i wonder what these would feel like on me....always wondered what it would feel like and it just seems like something i could see myself in
closets(being restrained within)
this just seems like fun to me...Master takes a few hours out of His day to tie me up in the closet for something i was supposed to do or some kind of punishment and plays with me and teases me for hours before taking me out and using my pussy as long as He can showing me that im His lil one to do with whatever He wants
cuff restraints
to me these would seem weird wearing at first, but i think i would be able to wear them and get used to them...they kind of seem cool too
gags/mouth bits
i like the idea of being gagged and that no matter how hard or how loud i try to scream...nobody is going to hear me except Master and He hears nothing but a muffled portion of whatever it is im trying to say or scream
handcuffs/shackles
this would be amazing to feel what its like to wear my own handcuffs and be restrained by them...of course the only one to have the keys would be Master...besides you gotta wear your own cuffs to know how they work dont you?
-----list below is what i've tried or would like to try in the future with Master
Just to Experience It
watching a porn movie/show with Master
i havent seen one before and id like to watch one with Master and maybe try to act something out that He'd like to see
1950s household
our household already is a good bit like this :) i love it and i love when Master just enjoys being at home with me here
Victorian household
this has similarities to the 1950s household style where the man is in charge but there are other things used such as corner time and other things...with the way i can sometimes come off as extremely bratty i like this idea of this kind of household very much or combining the two together...either way i like the ideas used by this lifestyle
Role Playing
fantasy rape
only with Master and everything would have to be laid out because of my fears and past
interrogations
idk what exactly this would involve but seems interesting
kidnappings
same rules with fantasy rape apply here too
prison scenes
doctor/patient
i love the idea of Master playing doctor or even medic on me and try to treat whatevers wrong with me
Sexual Play
anal play/anal sex
anal plugs/beads
anal plugs/beads outdoors
under clothes and stays private
fisting(vaginal)
seems hardcore but if He wanted to try it id go for it)
forced homosexuality(being used by friends)
if He wanted me to do something with 2 certain people i would but they are the only ones)
genital sex(ABSOLUTELY LOVE IT!!!!)
anal sex
love this despite the pain its like a good painful sensation lol
hand jobs (giving & receiving)
i like both because either way there is possibly a reward of some kind whether its His pleasure, mine, or
both of us getting pleasure i dont care)
head(giving & receiving)
same as above i love the way it feels when Master goes down on me...for the longest time i have wanted to squirt for Him but have yet to do so :( but its an awesome feeling making Him feel good and when He does it to me especially when they're both together)
sex(heterosexual)
same as genital and anal sex!! i absolutely LOVE IT and love when Master just goes to town on me and messes with my head by pounding the hardest He can into my wet pussy oh man does it feel so good when He does that or with my legs over my head....mmmm getting ahead of myself lol)
swallowing(cum)
lol love it especially when its Master's because i know then that i have done a good job and He is completely satisfied)
talking dirty(talker/talkee)
not sure about doing the talking because im not very good at dirty talk but i always love hearing how im such a naughty slut in my ear from Him
tickling
i dont mind being tickled at all and He knows it...it is definitely something i love
vibrators
i think these would be the death of me if they were used but right now we dont own one...who knows our toy cabinet may expand in the future
wrestling
this is a good part of the play aspect for me...its why i love playing hide and seek or chase with it...its the thrill and the fun for me trying to at least hold my own even if it is for a little bit
Exhibitionism
collars(in public)
this is something i wouldnt do unless it was a casual piece of jewelry meant to act as a collar...the necklace i wear now with the two rings joined together to me symbolizes my collar and has not been removed unless it was for medical reasons
forced masturbation
i couldnt necessarily do this at first, but i think now that at some point in the future if Master wanted me to do it for Him i would be able to do it although this wasnt the case when we first got together because i was so shy and would have been so nervous trying to do it
forced nudity(private)
if it was just Master and myself or a couple of our friends i would be okay with it because they would be in the lifestyle, but im not one to be showing around other people and i dont think Master is either but i could be wrong
humiliation, verbal(public)
this is a big turn on for me...it is crazy how i can just get one look and be reprimanded so quick while others are around that they have no clue what's going on...im not completely into being out and in the public's face but it turns me on to get in trouble and threatened with being spanked right then and there or get the "wait til we get home" look
modeling(for erotic photos)
this case is one that in the past i would have been completely against it but in all honest i would have said no......now i think it is kind of cool and would love trying it at some point....there is something thrilling about taking pictures just Master and i knowing that we would be the only ones to see it
outdoor scenes/sex
as long as it was kept private this would be amazing....i would love to go camping with Master and just experience a punishment out in the wild where you can do whatever you want and nobody is going to be able to do a thing about it or you can have sex and be as loud as you want with nature to cover the sounds up lol
Discipline/Submission
24/7 total power exchange
now i love this and wish it was an everyday thing in our life...to me 24/7 means that we live it not just in the bedroom but in everyday....it doesnt matter what we're doing i am always going to be His submissive and He my Master
begging/pleading
i used to think that it was above me to have to beg or plead someone for something but in all honesty i kind of like the idea of begging to be allowed to cum or having to beg for something from Master it really turns me on
chores(domestic service/housework)
now that we live in our own house it is even easier for this to become an option in our lives...i kind of would like this to happen to where i have set things to do around my schedule and if they arent done or something forgotten there is a punishment for it....kind of like making sure the clothes are put in the dryer and folded and if not for every item i get five hits or something along those lines...im sure Master could come up with something creative
exercise(forced/required)
with my shape not being the best right now, i hope that Master will implement at least a walk or something every night to keep up my current physical condition because it is my stress reliever and He has seen how stressed out i can get....this also keeps me from getting too unhealthy and out of shape
following orders
i guess this goes without saying...whatever He says goes and i need to learn that...sometimes my stubborness gets ahead of me and i tend to argue, so i guess i need to learn more about patience on some things and realize when i need to fight my battles and when i need to leave them alone
hair shaving(body/genitalia)
this has been a rule for the two of us since the beginning, but i have found that i have been sliding on it since i came out of my training for the military...crazy enough but i think that i need to get back to doing this especially with Master being able to use me and play with me a lot more in our own house
humiliation, verbal(private)
enough said before when it came to the thought of humiliation verbal in public....i love the idea of it
kneeling
granted i may not be able to do it for long periods of time, but there are modified versions of it...either way i love when the moments happen because it makes me realize just where my place is and it just puts me in that right frame of mind....takes me back to lessons i learned from a story i read
lectures(for misbehavior)
when you combine this with a spanking and put in the corner, oh is it a bad night for me....i hate being lectured especially when i have done wrong because it reminds me even more of just how much i have disappointed Master...it makes me feel even lower and i beg to take whatever punishment He would give me to escape the shame and low feelings my misbehavior has caused
massage(giving)
love giving them to Master because they make Him so relaxed and it feels sooooo good for Him
orgasm control
enough said on this one....love it when i can feel it coming and Master keeps holding me off until i dont think i can hold it anymore
punishment
i love getting the punishments i deserve and sometimes love getting the reminders ones because it reminds just where i stand and that yes i may get bratty sometimes but i am not the one in control of things, He is
standing in the corner
this is another humiliation thing for me...it just takes me back to when i was a child and i was made to stand in the corner...i hate not being able to move or talk and this is a combination of both of those for me...so this is a terrible punishment especially when i can hear something going on and i want to see it but i cant----like a good tv show
Masochism
being bitten
being bitten to me makes it all worthwhile because i can show off proudly the mark that my Master left...it lets me know that im loved and that im His if He is willing to mark me with His own bite mark
belts(being beaten with one)
i dont hate it but i dont exactly like it either...when faced with the choice to choose between this or a harsher punishment implement...id gladly choose this one
hairbrush spankings
granted i hate it but love it at the same time....there is just something about how Master spanks me with it then uses it to play with my pussy more and more until i cant take it anymore...there's so much heat coming from my pussy and so much heat coming from my butt that it just overpowers me
sensory deprivation
i love it when i lose the senses when Master is playing with me...at first i didnt like too much the idea of losing the ability to see, but after experiencing it i realized that i loved being immobilized and not being able to see what Master is doing to me...it turned me on that much more and made me jump with everything He did
whipping
i havent officially been whipped yet because the one i got Master is just a play one, but i think it hurts like crap anyways i wouldnt want to see what the real one felt like....either way i like the way it feels but hate it at the same time...i think im slightly into pain but i cant do a whole lot of it
wooden paddles
these just make me think of what it would be like being a sorority pledge and getting a spanking from the paddle as part of the intiation although i know that kind of stuff "doesnt happen" on college campuses, lol i know it does its just not talked about
Bondage
blindfolds
again i like the feeling of not knowing what is about to happen to me...it makes it that much more sensuous for me...id love to try it one night where im handcuffed together and unable to move and gagged and blindfolded and Master just has fun....i love the idea of a blindfold :)
bondage(light)
havent really tried any bondage yet but i would love to...id love to see what its like to be tied up and unable to move certain body parts
bondage(heavy)
hmmmm....wonder what itd be like unable to move or tied in a certain position as punishment for a little while....im sure Master could get real creative with this
cages/confinement(locked inside of)
in all honesty in the past i would have completely flat out said no to this, but i find it funny in a way....it would be something cool to try to at least say i tried it...i trust Master and know that He would keep me safe, but i honestly cant say flat out no to this idea anymore...i may laugh and tell Master no but id at least give it a try if He wanted to try it
chains
i wonder what these would feel like on me....always wondered what it would feel like and it just seems like something i could see myself in
closets(being restrained within)
this just seems like fun to me...Master takes a few hours out of His day to tie me up in the closet for something i was supposed to do or some kind of punishment and plays with me and teases me for hours before taking me out and using my pussy as long as He can showing me that im His lil one to do with whatever He wants
cuff restraints
to me these would seem weird wearing at first, but i think i would be able to wear them and get used to them...they kind of seem cool too
gags/mouth bits
i like the idea of being gagged and that no matter how hard or how loud i try to scream...nobody is going to hear me except Master and He hears nothing but a muffled portion of whatever it is im trying to say or scream
handcuffs/shackles
this would be amazing to feel what its like to wear my own handcuffs and be restrained by them...of course the only one to have the keys would be Master...besides you gotta wear your own cuffs to know how they work dont you?
"This aint no thinking thing, right brain left brain, it goes a little deeper then that...."
So thinking on things in the past, i have come to realize that there is a new beginning going to start here. Medically my past is full of lots of illnesses, but im hoping this will be a new chance for Master and myself. Hopefully this is the beginning of the new and improved me. I have made vows before to make things better for myself, but i think this is really the beginning of something special for me. Honestly i know Master will help me with whatever i ask of Him to do.
Looking at my eating habits, i have realized they arent exactly the healthiest in the world. Add onto that my low exercise, or really no exercise routine right now, then you get a bad lifestyle. Master says it often enough to me that i am not fat at all and i know im not fat, but i also know that i have gained weight recently from all the medicines that i have been on. He thinks im beautiful, but i dont think im as beautiful as He sees me. This is honestly the heaviest that i have ever been. I know that scales can be a little off when you go to the doctor's office because of the difference in what you're wearing and a whole lot of other factors. Either way to me i dont like being at this weight.
Weight hasnt usually been an issue for me, but when i fit into the smaller sizes i felt good because i was skinny, but still at a healthy weight. Coming home after basic and tech and having people remark on how much weight you lost made me feel good. I liked that i looked skinny but was still at a healthy weight. I wasnt completely over weight nor was i underweight. I was at a good 135 which for my health is right about in the middle of the weight ranges for me from 120 to 160. My goal is to get back down to between 130 and 135 because it seems to be a good weight for me and im still healthy. This will take a lot of diligence for me, but i think if i play into my new craving for sweet potatoes and salad i can do it. Besides that if i really asked Master to do it with me, i think He would. I think i may try to start up the p90x even if it means just doing the core workouts and the ab workout to save injuring my knee worse then it is, especially since that's the only pt that im going to be getting for a good little while.
So also with the new me there are going to be blogs every night. Master brought up a good point the other night when me and Him talked that i was bottling everything in. There are times where i may not know what's bothering me, but it seems that i was disassociating myself from things or in the beginning stages of disassociating myself from the things around me. It scares me because this is part of PTSD and it means that the things in my life are starting to get to me and i wouldnt even know it. So much like Master suggested, even if it isnt about something lifestyle related i will be blogging. It may just be a list of what's bothering me the most at the moment or whatever, but there will be a blog EVERY night no matter how tired i may be.
The other thing im looking at is reviewing the things that i like. This doesnt mean that im changing any of the likes that i have for the lifestyle, but i think since we have had to put it on hold because of my health concerns. As things slowly wind back down and i may or may not have a diagnosis this coming week, i find that there is a need for relooking at everything in my life and find out if there is more i want or less or keep it the same. Honestly, i highly doubt i will want this because despite being sick i find myself craving the lifestyle. I have found that i cant live without it and have asked Master a few times as to why nothing was going on and asked Him to get more into the lifestyle because i felt lost. When im not in it, it is like im missing a whole part of myself and im just not whole. It has been a little bit over a year since i have become exclusively involved in the lifestyle and i find that i need another look at what i like and dont like. There are a lot of things that i think have changed since i have been with Master. Not only that there are some other things that i wish to be more a part of our lives if possible. Hopefully Master likes this idea, but it will take some time to think on it and it may be a new post for sure.
Other then the things posted above, that is all the new news for now. Now im off to find out what exactly my interests are in the lifestyle and find out what exactly has changed and what has stayed the same. Who knows there may be quite a few more revelations with this self-reflection then i ever thought. I can only hope that it brings out the even better side of me then what i have seen now.
Looking at my eating habits, i have realized they arent exactly the healthiest in the world. Add onto that my low exercise, or really no exercise routine right now, then you get a bad lifestyle. Master says it often enough to me that i am not fat at all and i know im not fat, but i also know that i have gained weight recently from all the medicines that i have been on. He thinks im beautiful, but i dont think im as beautiful as He sees me. This is honestly the heaviest that i have ever been. I know that scales can be a little off when you go to the doctor's office because of the difference in what you're wearing and a whole lot of other factors. Either way to me i dont like being at this weight.
Weight hasnt usually been an issue for me, but when i fit into the smaller sizes i felt good because i was skinny, but still at a healthy weight. Coming home after basic and tech and having people remark on how much weight you lost made me feel good. I liked that i looked skinny but was still at a healthy weight. I wasnt completely over weight nor was i underweight. I was at a good 135 which for my health is right about in the middle of the weight ranges for me from 120 to 160. My goal is to get back down to between 130 and 135 because it seems to be a good weight for me and im still healthy. This will take a lot of diligence for me, but i think if i play into my new craving for sweet potatoes and salad i can do it. Besides that if i really asked Master to do it with me, i think He would. I think i may try to start up the p90x even if it means just doing the core workouts and the ab workout to save injuring my knee worse then it is, especially since that's the only pt that im going to be getting for a good little while.
So also with the new me there are going to be blogs every night. Master brought up a good point the other night when me and Him talked that i was bottling everything in. There are times where i may not know what's bothering me, but it seems that i was disassociating myself from things or in the beginning stages of disassociating myself from the things around me. It scares me because this is part of PTSD and it means that the things in my life are starting to get to me and i wouldnt even know it. So much like Master suggested, even if it isnt about something lifestyle related i will be blogging. It may just be a list of what's bothering me the most at the moment or whatever, but there will be a blog EVERY night no matter how tired i may be.
The other thing im looking at is reviewing the things that i like. This doesnt mean that im changing any of the likes that i have for the lifestyle, but i think since we have had to put it on hold because of my health concerns. As things slowly wind back down and i may or may not have a diagnosis this coming week, i find that there is a need for relooking at everything in my life and find out if there is more i want or less or keep it the same. Honestly, i highly doubt i will want this because despite being sick i find myself craving the lifestyle. I have found that i cant live without it and have asked Master a few times as to why nothing was going on and asked Him to get more into the lifestyle because i felt lost. When im not in it, it is like im missing a whole part of myself and im just not whole. It has been a little bit over a year since i have become exclusively involved in the lifestyle and i find that i need another look at what i like and dont like. There are a lot of things that i think have changed since i have been with Master. Not only that there are some other things that i wish to be more a part of our lives if possible. Hopefully Master likes this idea, but it will take some time to think on it and it may be a new post for sure.
Other then the things posted above, that is all the new news for now. Now im off to find out what exactly my interests are in the lifestyle and find out what exactly has changed and what has stayed the same. Who knows there may be quite a few more revelations with this self-reflection then i ever thought. I can only hope that it brings out the even better side of me then what i have seen now.
Monday, May 2, 2011
is it April fools day again?
So as of late last night, the news announced that Osama bin Laden was dead. The first time i saw it was on facebook and i honestly thought it was some sort of joke that people were just being funny and playing a new sort of game to try and punk people out. It seems that this wasnt true....it wasnt a joke at all but very real life.
The president announced to us that he was in fact dead and DNA tests confirmed it. He died in Pakistan and was killed by covert soldiers that were taught the best in how to fight. :D I cant believe how good it feels to know that he is dead, but i cant help but feel a sense of dread with this new news. The military is now placed on a heightened sense of alert and there are also more safety precautions that are going to be initiated at the bases. I know for a fact that this is going to make my job just that much more harder to do and a lot more high stressful. I am honestly nervous as to where this new future is going to steer us. Hopefully it means that our military can at least come home out of Afghanistan because i understand that in Iraq we are in the process of trying to help them rebuild their military.
My other concern is more faith based. It seems that maybe this will either bring some more peace to around the world or chaos. Either way i think that i am going to start examining my faith a little bit more because i have realized that i have become a little bit lax in it and just brushed it off with everything going on. I would pray to Him when i felt like it and others would just be when i felt that it was needed to give Him a moment of praise. I think though that He deserves all the praise for everything in my life whether it is the good or the bad because He knows the plan for my life and i have to endure some struggles and hardships to get to the truly good things in life. This is especially true for me because i had to go through so many rotten apples before i found Master. He is the most amazing man in my life and i really do thank God for every day that i get to spend in His arms. Tonight will feel even more extra special going to sleep laying in His arms. I find myself wanting to give back more and become a little bit more faith based then what i have been in the past. In the past i have said that i would start reading my bible more and just pray to God before every meal and at night before i went to bed but somehow it fizzled out. Well not this time. :D Im determined to keep this goal and to push forward. I think there will be a lot of watching "Facing the Giants" in my future to remind me just how thankful I should be for everything and that God always does things in His own time. I may not know what it is, but He will reveal it in due time. For now all i ask is that He allows me to enjoy every moment that i spend with Master.
The president announced to us that he was in fact dead and DNA tests confirmed it. He died in Pakistan and was killed by covert soldiers that were taught the best in how to fight. :D I cant believe how good it feels to know that he is dead, but i cant help but feel a sense of dread with this new news. The military is now placed on a heightened sense of alert and there are also more safety precautions that are going to be initiated at the bases. I know for a fact that this is going to make my job just that much more harder to do and a lot more high stressful. I am honestly nervous as to where this new future is going to steer us. Hopefully it means that our military can at least come home out of Afghanistan because i understand that in Iraq we are in the process of trying to help them rebuild their military.
My other concern is more faith based. It seems that maybe this will either bring some more peace to around the world or chaos. Either way i think that i am going to start examining my faith a little bit more because i have realized that i have become a little bit lax in it and just brushed it off with everything going on. I would pray to Him when i felt like it and others would just be when i felt that it was needed to give Him a moment of praise. I think though that He deserves all the praise for everything in my life whether it is the good or the bad because He knows the plan for my life and i have to endure some struggles and hardships to get to the truly good things in life. This is especially true for me because i had to go through so many rotten apples before i found Master. He is the most amazing man in my life and i really do thank God for every day that i get to spend in His arms. Tonight will feel even more extra special going to sleep laying in His arms. I find myself wanting to give back more and become a little bit more faith based then what i have been in the past. In the past i have said that i would start reading my bible more and just pray to God before every meal and at night before i went to bed but somehow it fizzled out. Well not this time. :D Im determined to keep this goal and to push forward. I think there will be a lot of watching "Facing the Giants" in my future to remind me just how thankful I should be for everything and that God always does things in His own time. I may not know what it is, but He will reveal it in due time. For now all i ask is that He allows me to enjoy every moment that i spend with Master.
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